What do the lonely do at Christmas 

What do the lonely do at Christmas??? 🎄🎅🏿🤶🏾  First of all, you’re not Lonely, you’re Single. You will do you, meaning You will love You, your kids, your family, friends and have a wonderful Christmas!

If you’re like me and have an empty nest, go out and find something to do! Take yourself to a fancy Christmas Brunch or Dinner, go to church, knock on your neighbor’s dor and say “I need some of that food yall cooking.” There’s the gift of Facebook and video chatting use it!! If you want to cook your own lil favorites or order it from your favorite caterer. Plus, if you’re in New Orleans there are options.

We tend to focus on not having a relationship during the holidays and if you think about it holidays are more about the kids, go donate your time to some kids if you do not have any of your own. It could simply be buying a toy and donating it or dropping it off at a neighbor’s house.

Enjoy your life, having a man, husband or being in a relationship is magical as it seems, more like a fantasy you create in your head.

 Look around, more than half the women in relationships have some sort of issue with the man, from cheating to not working to being in a domestic abusive relationship and the list of issues continues. Are you willing to endure emotional, physical and/or physical pain just to have a man for Christmas???

We put to much focus on having a Man… What is about having a man that makes one all crazy.??? Loneliness? You have your family and friends, but most importantly you have you.

I get companionship, a solid relationship, but all this fairytale BS needs to stop. Before you call yourself crying over being lonely, develop a relationship with a couple who have been together for 20+ yrs and ask them how they made it.. Having a partner takes work and dedication, a wedding is not a relationship.

Nothing wrong with having friends and being patient until your Mr.Right comes along. When he comes, he will add to the joy and love of Christmas Time. Lonely isn’t just in the physical sense, you can be lonely and married.

Be Happy and have a beautiful Holiday regardless of your relationship status and enjoy your life!



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